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Advanced search. Our partner. It is against the Forum Rules to discuss Fetishes as the main topic of a post anywhere at PsychForums. The topics discussed may be offensive to some people. Please be aware of this before entering this forum. Topic locked. I already had a lot of shame and embarrassment around this, but to make matters worse my sister thought it was OK to tell her friends about it. Now a lot of people know that I'm into bigger guys and they call me disgusting, weird, perverted, whatever!
It's a difficult situation because on the one hand I feel I deserve better treatment, but on the other hand, I kind of agree that it's wrong and I feel so ashamed that the secret is out there!
I just wanted to know if anyone else has been 'outed' and how they have coped with it? Also, is it normal to feel so conflicted and ashamed around a fetish?
Re: Being shamed for a fat fetish by Maligan12 » Wed Sep 23, pm I think it is common to be ashamed of fetishes but there's no reason to be. It harms no one and make you a more interesting person. You deserve to be treated better. Those same people might have even disturbing fetishes, it's not like people discuss their fetishes out in the open.
I went through something similar, although not as intense. And because the idea of wanting to have sex with a black man with a presumably large penis is considered very emasculating, even for a gay man, they would make fun of it, especially because of my clean-cut image.
It was very hard for me but we were all young and didn't know how to deal with it and because my friends didn't feel that way they obviously couldn't understand it. Either you simply ignore those people or confront them and say the truth: that everyone has fetishes and the only reason this happened is because you got caught, it could have happened to them as well.
Don't let them make you feel bad, it's a very harmless fetish, there are some really really freaky stuff out there, trust me. Related articles Replies Views Last post. Check Mental Health Matters. Mental Health Dictionary.Fat fetish forum
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